Welcome to the my wife wears the pants blog. Its not that your opinion is not important, just that your partnership is best if the woman in your life has final say on everything. I consider this to be things that could be deal breakers or relationship-enders. Put aside chauvinistic stereotypes and do more than your partner, do it gladly and make her happy. It is surprising to think about how the world has changed today and women have evolved to such extents that there are marriages where wives dominance is greater than the husbands. Well, not so fast. Ask Questions and receive answers from Women and Men in a variety of FLRs. Our blog offers engaging and intelligent content and opinions on everything from the Gynarchy to the Wife-Led Marriage (WLM), from Female Supremacy to Male Subservience, and a good deal more in between. Ms. Renees intense and radical approach to their relationship will challenge those who merely dabble in BDSM. Make no mistake, I am still the final authority, and he fully supports my leading the relationship and being in control. As Ive matured (and especially over the last few months), Ive realized that this is not at all true. That's according to sex therapist and researcher, Gloria Brame, Ph.D., as reported by Mind Body Green. Are you the one people turn to in a crisis? This is a natural behavior that comes out of past vengeance. PURPOSE: To allow the subjects the opportunity to re-experience toddlerhood within a Female Led Relationship, and to take control of the relationship. Some examples of traditions: As a sign of respect for her leadership, he will defer to her in public situations. In this article, we shall throw light on certain aspects of a female-led marriage. To do so, click on the tickbox marked Automatically keep my Mac up to date. As our relationship is now, I serve my wife when we are together and she calls the shots that she wasnt to call. Make him feel like a slave even when he is clothed. If you have vetoes list them here. They also lead a life of more purpose. Focus on her, listen carefully to what she says, watch her reactions, be aware of what is going on. In marriages where women are not so smart and yet dominate their husbands, it could lead to chaos and problems. Finding Fulfillment in a Female-Led Marriage, Womans Guide to getting full disclosure about your mans desire to have a Female Led Relationships, Adult Punishment in Female Led Relationships. I also have to admit that so many of the training methods, like paddling, spanking, long term teasing, giving oral without self gratification are all things that I genuinely enjoy, so Im not sure that this would be a great modifier of behavior. We agree to the following escape clause in the event that he cannot perform: 1. Required fields are marked *. But he wont be able to keep to it at first. The Queendom will likely give certificates, maybe brands, to designate the level of training a slave has received. Such controlling wives will never let husbands watch porn or will never watch it together with them too. Shave off all body hair and make your body soft and smooth to remind yourself you are a docile male. Set aside your kinks and selfish fantasies in favour of her absolute satisfaction. *Dont be afraid of the word superior Tt does not affirm that women are superior just that there is a hierarchy of decision-making. Much conflict in relationships stems from disagreements over money, household chores or how couples spend their time. Just a note, this is not the place to announce your undying love and devotion to one of the Dominant Ladies. if (d.getElementById(id)) return; Now that he has started on shifting all financial control to you, you can start to treat him as a slave in earnest by instilling obedience and changing habits is usually done by a combination of rewards and punishment. 2 A safe gesture. One needed personality trait in a dominant female is empathy. For the last ten years, Ms. Renee has employed erotic S&M, mind control, and brainwashing techniques to forge an intimate and loving bond with her submissive partner. Your submissive male needs to be disciplined and punished as needed and he hopes that you will be strict with him and demand his best and correct his mistakes and failures. Have him strip naked. In the wake of the ME TOO movement, men are intimidated and afraid to talk to us until we determine what they can say. Women do tend to make the best managers of their home and family, as our brains are simply wired differently from men. Admittedly, I have encouraged it over the years and it has grown in our marriage. Ponwell.com strives to provide motivation and inspiration to people in different fields. They did it to pamper their wives and to make them feel superior. That doesnt mean, however, that I wont rely on his strengths and abilities. Are you the 'rock' your family depends on? Rather, the relationship will be led by the feminine energy within both of you. For Female Dominants, well, you probably already know all of this information, but I recommend it all the same. var js, fjs = d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0]; The woman makes most or all the decisions. A Female Led Relationship is a committed, loving union in which the woman's happiness, satisfaction and progress are the primary focus in the relationship. I should note that I have never blogged before, despite being pretty tech savvy. I welcome everyone out there who may be considering a shift in marriage lifestyle to follow us on this journey, and hope that maybe it will help you with yours. Such men will then also not want to get into extramarital affairs. So youre ready to start your journey into female lead relationships. Do you plan events for your friends and family? We further agree that at points of stress _____ (she, he any) may call for a meeting to read and make adjustments. In a female led relationship, the man can relax and let the woman have final say on all major decision making. Comment below about what you have done in the last week to put, Time for a public service announcement from Ms Renee Lane. They allow their husbands to touch them only on special occasions. It has led to a relationship very much like the one you are describing, and it is working well, Your email address will not be published. You will NEVER touch your penis or try to come. A safe word. His safe word for stop is ___________________. Such wife dominated marriages exist in our society. Make sure a leash can be attached to it for your Mistress to train you. This kind of marriage settlement is not always good. Dont think for a second that our revolution will be confined to the bedroom or the kinky games a couple may play. the need to find fulfillment through service and even obedience to the woman they love that the kinks will fall away or become unimportant. It happened all the time. **Inferior does not describe a person or gender here but a hierarchal relationship. When a woman feels that her husband is too nave and she is too stoic, she feels that she should take the lead. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. She Makes the Rules website is completely owned and run by real everyday women. Every month, you can write him a check he can deposit into this account. They dont always dress in leather., Our goal is to make Female Led Relationships as socially acceptable as gay marriage. A female-led relationship is one in which the woman becomes the principal (but not sole) decision-maker, often taking the lead and exhibiting a more dominant persona. If needed, we will create a formal document where the conflict is registered and the remediation is written. It gives them a feeling of superiority of men and makes them happy. Matriarchy is a way of life, characterized by female-led relationships and respect for the superior authority of all women, especially including the practice of female domination manners and customs. Female Leadership +0. 2. This lifestyle will spill over into how society operates. It has been intense at times and almost non-existent other times. Traditionally, the term "female-led relationship" or FLR was understood as a type of BDSM relationship where a submissive man agrees to be sexually dominated by a woman. There are female led relationships where the woman is the sole provider. Women do tend to make the best managers of their home and family, as our brains are simply wired differently from men. We dont need his income, so he works Part-time so he can serve and support me. 4. Put aside your ego and accept her corrections and discipline as positive training. The first finished scene from Finding Love the first FemDom movie ever created for a mainstream audience, has just been released. In 90% of what Ive read, sex is very intergrated in the whole process. One each for pause and stop. If he loves me he will naturally do what I want. Some of us are good leaders and caretakers of our families, and we do tend to MAKE THE RULES in our households, or at least the majority of them! While being strong, and an alpha personality, she is incredibly intuitive of what people need, and a strong want to to help or fix everyone and everything that she loves, sometimes to a fault. In this type of relationship, the woman has mild authority, and the family decisions are taken by the woman after discussing with the man. Our goal is to create the perfect femtopia society, similar to the 1950's with one big exception the gender roles are 100% reversed. Finally was the sexual aspect of it. Allow her to take the lead in all things, be obedient to her will, learn her ways, embrace her rules and preferences. They said that they enjoyed being dominated by their wives. All of this works great for both of us since she gets the service and attention she deserves, I get the submission and obedience I crave, and we both get to experience our self outside of the relationship. But that taken aback feeling, its because youve stepped back, and seen through less passionate eyes. She is probably NOT dominant. From now on, he will wear either panties, or if you arent inclined to do this, wear humiliating underwear. Even when dining in a restaurant. . Such husbands are happy to meekly follow whatever their wife orders them to. Yet the opposite is true. The possibilities are endless. We havent had classes on building harmonious relationships in our schools. The woman will be the breadwinner and provide for the family. If you have chosen a level 1 or do not desire a FLR you will need a more traditional agreement. This relationship requires a submissive man and a woman who embraces power. Recently we recommitted to my wife being the full time alpha and me falling into my preferred role as the beta. She would have a house full of people, never worrying about the clutter, and she will always roll with just about any situation as it comes her way. I was just on a college campus on a business trip, and noted that Women outnumbered men two-to-one, and the men were subdued. Your opinion is wanted! You may want to be pampered, receive regular massages, control what you watch on TV, have your drinks and snacks brought to you while he does the house hold chores. Learn More! We agree to celebrate these ceremonies as cherished _______________________________________________________ (see attachment for ceremony details). She is limited by/to ______________________________________ (or just insert the words no limits imposed if there are none). An effective female-led relationship should hinge on respect. It was a good month into things before I decided that it might be a good thing for me to blog this journey into a Female led marriage. What is a marriage bond after all if two partners cannot sit and discuss their problems with each other? Where men may apply to spend the weekend immersed in a full high protocol environment, to be guided by the superior Female hand. Your submission has been received! Major decisions or changes should not be made without her approval, let her take the lead and respect her decisions. (Where else does men sleeping on the couch or being in the dog house come from?) Her work has appeared on the Sundance Channel, and many of the films she has worked on have gotten international distribution and been shown in festivals and on television around the world. She's the manager, you are the subordinate. It may just deliver the lifestyle you dream about. You might think this is silly but we all make relationship agreements. Find your place as relationship dynamics shift and society evolves toward female leadership. This article addresses level 2-4 FLR. Learn More! It will make him respect your authority 1.3 3. If you are truly interested in being more respectful towards women, heres a really good 5 simple ways article that covers the basics and provides helpful examples. By clicking below to subscribe, you acknowledge that your information will be transferred to Mailchimp for processing. This can, at times be mistaken as me having an Alpha or controlling personality. Sensible people learn how to strike a balance in their relationships. I've written about this. His feminine presentation has really improved. It was designed for women who are interested in learning how to embrace their inner strength and management skills! 2. Viola is raising a 10-year-old daughter, and has a grown son and two grandsons. Women have seen much of this in the past by emotionally-abusive men, and now that things are reversed, I am beginning to think that in a healthy marriage relationship, both partners need the ability to negotiate and compromise, and there has to be a degree of mutual sacrifice for the welfare of our relationship and mental health of my husband. Which man are, As your Mistress forms relationships with other women you should expect things to change. 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